wedding celebrant Archives - Glenda J Ashleigh

February 2, 2017 by Glenda Ashleigh

Valentine Wish

PEG AND POG’S VALENTINE WISH

Peg and Pog and Glenda send a special Valentine wish to all lovers. February 14 is the traditional day for sending a Valentine wish to your sweetheart.

Romance is in the Air

Romance! What exactly does it mean? According to the Macmillan dictionary online, the countable noun, ‘romance’ is “a feeling of excitement that you get from new and slightly dangerous experiences.”

Until Pog met Peg he had not experienced anything particularly exciting or dangerous. Break dancing, although being somewhat exciting and dangerous, had not had any romantic effects on Pog. Of course break dancing on his own, in private, did not set Pog up for any likely romantic experiences.

Peg and Pog stars of Dolls are Different, or are they?

Peg and Pog know a thing or two about romance

Pog can thank his unique execution of the ‘orbital rotation’ break dance move, as the catapult (literally) that lands him among the roses and his ‘romantic awakening.’

Peg captures the very essence of romance in the language of love as only she knows how. Can Pog say ‘no’ to the angelic vision of Peg as he regains consciousness (among the roses)?

Of course, the only response he can offer is that of a gentleman, “Yes, thank you very much.” Pog feels an overwhelming urge of love for the angel who appears before him.

Such sensitivity! Such insight! The wonder and mystery that overtakes Peg and Pog must be romance. Feelings of ecstasy, unconditional love and joy as two souls reach out to each other and meld together in harmony!

What Peg actually says to Pog is not important. For Pog, the message is clear and he is excited. That is all that matters. The language of love is indeed powerful and potent. It sweeps all concerns away and, as Pog finds out, it can snap a bloke from a dazed state to full alertness in a moment!

September 14, 2016 by Glenda Ashleigh

Bush Wedding Gumdale Brisbane

Bush Wedding in Gumdale

Celebrate your bush wedding in Gumdale, the delightful outer-Brisbane suburb in Queensland. The Gumdale Historic Museum is an authentic pioneer’s house right in the heart of Gumdale.

So near to Brisbane and the southern Bayside areas, this charming venue is just perfect for an Australian bush wedding.

House in the Bush

Experience the feeling of living in a house in the bush in the early 1900s. The house is constructed of depression-era, 1920s-1930s, tin shingle and weatherboard. It has furniture, clothes, books and tools that are authentic depression-era, and these are just delightful.

The house sits in an Australian bush setting with grassed level ground and is next to its sealed car park. This makes for easy access, especially for the Bridal Party and guests.

There are lots of fantastic natural bush photo opportunities too! Not only are the outside areas great, but the inside of the house are also perfect for those fun photos. Create your own bush life with some props from the museum’s collection. This truly is the authentic bush adventure!

The adjacent Gumdale Progress Association Hall is also available for hire, either as a ceremony venue, or reception venue.

Please contact Robyn Nalder: International – 61+732455009 Australia – 07 3245 5009 for hiring details.

I Love Bush Weddings

I love bush weddings! Not only are they relaxed and fun, but everyone feels welcome at a bush wedding. I create unique wedding ceremonies that capture the true essence of an Australian bush setting. Contact Glenda to book me as your Celebrant for your Australian bush wedding.

Bush Bride

Meanwhile, please enjoy the following tale of a ‘Bush Bride’ as she settles into domestic life in the Australian bush. She may be new to the bush, however this Bride is no shrinking violet! She is always cheerful as she comes to grips with the various challenges of life in the bush.

7 New Cleveland road

April 15, 2016 by Glenda Ashleigh

Wedding Favours

Wedding Keepsakes for Very Important Brides

As a newly appointed Marriage Celebrant, I noticed that very few brides received wedding keepsakes or good luck charms on their wedding day. Today, even at formal wedding ceremonies including all the usual trimmings, I notice that many brides still do not receive any good-luck charms or keepsakes. Furthermore, at more informal ceremonies, although the setting is relaxed and laid-back, only sometimes do brides receive any keepsakes or good-luck charms from family or friends.

Good Luck

I wonder if many people know about the tradition of giving wedding keepsakes or charms to the Bride for good luck? Different cultures use different charm shapes as symbols of good luck.

A horseshoe shape is popular. Carry the horseshoe with the ‘arms’ turned upwards. This prevents the ‘good luck’ from spilling out! Carry the horseshoe with the ‘arms’ turned downwards, the good luck is said to spread everywhere the Bride walks.
A miniature shoe or slipper shape is also a popular wedding favour. Also, place a coin in the shoe or slipper for extra good luck!
Tiny locks and keys are attached to the bridal bouquet. These little ‘love locks’ make delightful decorations. Furthermore, they are also safer than attaching a padlock to a bridge or other public structure!
Another kind of attachment to the bridal bouquet is that of miniature portrait charms of family members who are not present at the ceremony. These may include loved ones, who although having passed away, are present, honoured and loved.

Wedding Keepsakes Made with Love

Wedding Keepsakes for Brides

I make special wedding keepsake favours or charms for very important Brides. Book Glenda, the Really Good Brisbane Celebrant, and you are a VIP, very important Bride!

All brides should have at least one good-luck wedding favour or charm, and so I make my signature satin hearts. No two hearts are the same! I decorate each heart to compliment the style and colours to appeal to the bride.

I give these unique bridal favours to Brides after the ‘Declaration of Marriage’ as good-luck keepsakes to take into their married life. These truly are unique wedding mementos for Brides that I make with love and care.

These ‘love hearts’ are not for sale! Book Glenda J Ashleigh, Brisbane’s Very Good Celebrant to get your special bridal favour!

April 3, 2016 by Glenda Ashleigh

Wedding Bomboniere

Creative Wedding Bomboniere to Delight

Wedding bomboniere are favours or gifts that wedding guests receive on the wedding day. Different cultures view weddings as happy events that people like to celebrate. Weddings also attract ‘good luck’ and everyone likes good luck! Wedding bomboniere is as different as you want it to be, so create your bomboniere and delight your wedding guests!

Wedding Bomboniere Through History

Traditionally, everyone in the community shares in the good luck associated with weddings and in spreading the love.

In 16th century France, only the wealthy classes gave wedding bomboniere to wedding guests. Small boxes to hold bonbons or other confectionery were popular bomboniere. These boxes were often decorated with gold and precious stones. Not only was this bomboniere valuable keepsakes, they were also handed down from one generation to another in families as heirlooms.

Families of modest means however, were more creative with their bomboniere. For example, In Italy, sugar-coated or Jordan almonds are popular as wedding bomboniere. Five sugar-coated almonds are presented in a dainty organza bag or wrapped in fine tule, and tied with a ribbon. These almonds represent the five wedding wishes: health, wealth, happiness, fertility and longevity.

Although the form of wedding bomboniere differs across cultures, the thoughts and sentiments are the same. It is all about how you spread and share the happiness of your wedding day. Cut the wedding cake and put small pieces in boxes or paper bags for guests to take home with them. This is and old and delightful bomboniere tradition that is easy. Wedding guests place the boxed cake under their pillows on the wedding night for ‘good luck’. Hopefully, wedding guests experience good luck!

In the 21st century, people are more creative with wedding bomboniere. Some gifts are practical while others are more sentimental. Wine bottle stoppers, personalised pens, and even music boxes that play the wedding waltz are popular. These bomboniere are available commercially, however they do come at a cost.

Personalised Wedding Bomboniere

Wedding Bomboniere Crochet Bells

Why not personalise your wedding bomboniere in unique ways? Express your personality, hopes and dreams in personalised bomboniere. These gifts are heartfelt and add that special touch to your day. The hand-made crochet Wedding Bells in this photo are delightful examples of unique bomboniere. These little bells add a lovely touch to place cards or as decorations on champagne flutes.

Other popular personalised wedding bomboniere include plant seeds, small plants in pots, and home-baked confectionery, jams and biscuits. Print or hand-write thank you notes and attach to these items. Invite family and friends to gather, make or present these personalised items. Not only is this is a great way to get everyone involved in the wedding preparations, it also saves time, effort, and of course, expense!

Why not share the love, good wishes and ‘good luck’ with wedding guests? Make a donation to a charity on behalf of your wedding guests who then receive tokens such as pins or thank-you cards from the charity. Alternatively, write thank-you messages to guests on place cards at the reception, or attach them to bomboniere.

Get creative and delight your wedding guests!

Are you ready for some really creative ideas for bomboniere? As Brisbane’s Really Good Celebrant, I know a special couple whose families get into the really creative bomboniere in a big way! Check out the carrot carving bomboniere guests receive at the wedding of Peg & Pog.

February 27, 2016 by Glenda Ashleigh

Wedding Vows Express Personal Wishes

Express Personal Wishes in Your Wedding Vows

Wedding Vows are delightful ways to express your personal wishes for your partner and your married life. Many Brides and Grooms make personal vows to each other in their wedding ceremony. Sometimes these personal vows are individual for the Bride and Groom, and sometimes they are ‘shared’.

Personal Wedding Vows

By far the most popular personal vows are those written individually for the Bride and the Groom.

Quite often the words in the vows are kept ‘secret’ from the other party until the wedding day!

Yes, I will help you to write your personal wedding vows!

Presentation is important, especially on your wedding day! As Brisbane’s Really Good Celebrant, I attend to the details that make all the difference. I match the colours for the vow booklet graphics and decorations with your chosen wedding colours.

Contact me for delightful personal wedding vow booklets for your wedding ceremony!

Wishes and Words for Personal Wedding Vows

Wishes and words for personal wedding vows come from the heart. They express your personal hopes, dreams and values for your marriage. Choose the words that you and your partner understand and appreciate. Your personal wedding vows are your words.

Have fun with your vows! Use words that you like and that you understand. The only rule to follow is: “Vows are respectful.” Apply this rule to everyone involved in your wedding ceremony and your guests. Think about the people who will hear you say your vows and ask yourself this question, “Do I want them to hear this?” Keep the more intimate expressions for private conversations with your partner!

Writing Personal Vows

So you want to write your personal vows? Make a start! Write notes about all sorts of ideas, collect examples of vows and write something that you feel is ‘right for you’. Jot down a few points about what you bring to the marriage and what you wish for married life, then write your personal vow.

Need inspiration? Here are some suggested links to wedding vows sites to help you get started.

More modern vows. Quirky vows. How to write your personalised vow.

February 14, 2016 by Glenda Ashleigh

Brisbane Celebrant Weds Love Ducks

Brisbane Celebrant Weds Ducks in Love

Glenda J Ashleigh, Brisbane Celebrant weds the delightful love ducks in a ‘first’ for Brisbane. Brisbane ducks will never be the same! These ‘luvducks’ will say ‘I do’ in the beautiful Brisbane Bayside suburb of Manly.

Brisbane ducks will gather to witness the Bride & Groom being joined for evermore in duck love.

The wedding pond is a romantic wedding venue where the Bride & Groom first found love. The Bride & Groom will display their love with a large ‘Love’ sign.

Brisbane Celebrant, Glenda Ashleigh is very good at guiding nervous Brides & Grooms (including ducks) through their romantic wedding vows.

There will be much ‘happy flapping’ when the Groom gives the Bride an affectionate peck at the end of the ceremony.

Brisbane’s Beautiful Bayside

Duck family and friends are delighted that the two ‘luvducks’ will be wed in Brisbane’s Beautiful Bayside.

The Wynnum-Manly-Lota area on Moreton Bay has many great venues for wedding ceremonies all year round. This suits ducks just fine as the water is never far away. Lovely sea breezes during summer days allow ducks to relax and enjoy themselves. Winter days by the bay are a duck’s delight with sunshine glinting on the water.

Brisbane Celebrant Glenda Ashleigh

Brisbane Celebrant Glenda Ashleigh is Brisbane’s Really Good Celebrant. People (and ducks) find Glenda friendly and approachable. Glenda is a true professional, reliable and trustworthy. Your ceremony is Glenda’s business and she takes very good care of it.

What does Glenda do very well? She really listens to Brides & Grooms. Your wishes come first! You can be confident that Glenda will help you plan the ceremony that best suits you.

The Wynnum-Manly-Lota area is easy to get to from the Brisbane CBD. It is close to the Gateway Motorway, linking the northern and southern areas of Brisbane.

Contact Glenda

Contact Glenda by telephone or email for a free chat about your ceremony wishes, needs and wants. Glenda will answer your questions clearly and honestly.

You are welcome to arrange a meeting with Glenda, obligation-free to discuss your ceremony.

February 6, 2016 by Glenda Ashleigh

Brisbane Autumn Brides & Weddings

Brisbane Autumn Brides & Weddings…beautiful

Brisbane Autumn Brides really do have the best of everything! Autumn is a delightful time of year in beautiful Brisbane, the capital of Queensland. Autumn is an ideal time for weddings. Not too hot and humid during the day, not too chilly in the evenings.

Brisbane outdoor home garden wedding setting

An Autumn wedding ceremony in the great outdoors is a popular choice for Brides & Grooms in Brisbane. Fresh air, natural surroundings and relaxed.

When is Autumn in Brisbane? The Australian Autumn is from 1 March to 31 May. However, as Brisbane enjoys a sub-tropical climate, the weather often feels more like summer. The Autumnal Equinox for 2016 is 20 March. This is the time when there is an equal number of daylight and night-time hours. It is said that this is when the world is ‘in balance.’

Brisbane Autumn & Easter Brides & Weddings

Brisbane Autumn also means Easter. This is a popular time for weddings. Easter holidays in 2016 are celebrated from Friday (Good Friday), 25 March to Monday (Easter Monday), 28 March in Brisbane.

Planning a Brisbane Autumn Wedding

Planning for a Brisbane Autumn Wedding? Planning to invite guests from outside Brisbane, perhaps from overseas or interstate? Here are some important points to keep in mind:

The state of Queensland (as well as Western Australia and The Northern Territory) does not currently observe daylight saving time. The Australian Capital Territory, New South Wales, South Australia, Tasmania and Victoria, however, do observe daylight saving time for part of the year. In these states and territory, daylight saving time ends on the first Sunday in April.
The daylight hours get shorter during Autumn. The later in Autumn, the shorter the daylight hours. This is important when planning a daytime outdoor wedding ceremony. Knowing when it is daylight in Brisbane is very useful!
Your Notice of Intended Marriage must be in the hands of your Celebrant at least one month before the date of your wedding ceremony.

Book Brisbane’s Really Good Celebrant now!

Dates for Saturday and Sunday Autumn wedding ceremonies are still available!

Don’t wait (or at worst forget about it). Uh, oh, you did forget, didn’t you? Don’t panic, contact me now! If you have already made your wedding arrangements, and the wedding is less than 1 month away, you may be able to apply for a shortening of time in certain specified circumstances.

January 29, 2016 by Glenda Ashleigh

Wedding Bells – Celebrant Glenda J Ashleigh

Wedding Bells with Celebrant Glenda J Ashleigh!

Wedding Bells

The wedding bells are ringing! I am SO happy to be working with Easy Weddings.

If you (or perhaps someone you know) are planning to get married, and you are looking for a Really Good Celebrant in Brisbane:

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Contact me on my website, OR
click on my Easy Weddings link and contact me.

I’d love to hear from you and them!

And yes, I made these darling little wedding bells. Just one of the many ideas and unique touches that I bring to the wedding ceremonies I conduct. What do I charge for them you ask? Nothing! I make these little bells with love, to give them to delighted couples.

Some times the little bells decorate the charming wedding ceremony scroll that contains the script of the couple’s wedding ceremony. At other times, the little wedding bells are given to the bride as a favour, a special keepsake for a special day.

No two weddings are the same, and no two wedding bells are the same. I hand-make each tiny bell with love. The bells come in a variety of colours. I try to match the wedding bells to the colour range chosen for the bridal party.

These little bells are only available when couples engage me as their Celebrant. I do not make them to sell! They take too long to make. These little bells can ring out the joy on your wedding day!

Easy Weddings

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November 27, 2015 by Glenda Ashleigh

Flower Girl Attendants in Bridal Party

The Role of Flower Girl Attendants in the Bridal Party

Bridal Party Attendants the Flower Girl

Flower Girls are delightful! What is the role of Flower Girl? Flower Girl attendants in the Bridal Party assist the entrance of the Bride. A Flower Girl is a great addition to the Bridal Party, and the delight is doubled when there are two of them!

Here are Pip and Pepper, those two-and-a-half-year-old twin nieces of the Bridegroom, Pog at Peg & Pog’s wedding.

Peg and Pog hope that Pip and Pepper will skip along happily in front of them as they enter the Rose Garden for their wedding ceremony. However, Pip and Pepper have other ideas!! The little Flower Girls take a shortcut to the Rose Garden. After all, weddings are exciting and little girls like excitement. Pip and Pepper race ahead and alert everyone that Peg and Pog are on the path! The Bride and Groom approach and enter the Rose Garden on their own. Pip and Pepper stand in the wedding area and clap excitedly as Peg and Pog enter. Everyone appreciates such a novel bridal procession. This lovely touch sets the warm and happy tone for the wedding and everyone smiles and feels the love.

Flower Girls as Bridal Attendants

Are Flower Girls in the Bridal Party a good idea? What do you really expect of Flower Girls? Choosing Flower Girls can be a way to include young girl relatives and friends in the wedding. The big questions are, “Do they want to be a Flower Girl?” “Are they old enough to understand what is expected?” and “Are they reliable?”

Pip and Pepper are two-and-a-half-year-old girls who do exactly what they want to do!

As long as the Bride and Groom and all other Bridal Party attendants prepare for anything, then it is a good idea. Children are unpredictable however, and the chance of ‘different behaviour’ is very high.

Girls who consider themselves to be too old to be a Flower Girl have the role of Junior Bridesmaid. The Junior Bridesmaid’s role is actually less complicated that that of a Flower Girl. Junior Bridesmaids have a more relaxed time and do not have any specific tasks on the wedding day.

Will you include Flower Girls or Junior Bridesmaids in your Bridal Party? Will you prepare for ‘different behaviour’ on the day? How will you cope with unplanned events on the day? What will you say or do when such unplanned events occur? Keep smiling, treasure the precious moments on your big day and spread the love.

November 15, 2015 by Glenda Ashleigh

Bridal Party Attendants the Best Man

Bridal Party Attendants

Peg and Pog consider who to have as bridal party attendants at their wedding. Apparently, it is ‘traditional’ to have attendants.

Glenda, Brisbane’s Very Good Celebrant, asks Peg and Pog why they want to have bridal party attendants. Peg and Pog haven’t actually thought about the why, they just think they should!

Glenda, Brisbane’s Very Good Celebrant describes the various roles that traditionally, are included in the bridal party.

Peg and Pog learn that the bridal party can consist of just the Bride and Groom! The two witnesses can be guests and do not need to be in the Bridal Party. Peg and Pog can choose whether or not to have Bridal Party Attendants. Bridal Party Attendants are optional.

Peg says that she definitely wants flower girls as her bridal party attendants on her wedding day. Pog suggests that his nieces, Pip and Pepper are just right as flower girls.

The Role of the Best Man in the Bridal Party

Best Man

Pog chooses his brother, Milo, to be his ‘Best Man’ at the wedding of Peg and Pog. Milo feels very honoured to be Pog’s ‘Best Man,’ and wants to be the best, ‘Best Man’ he can be!

However, Pog is not too sure about the responsibilities of a ‘Best Man’, so he asks Peg, the blushing bride-to-be, if she knows. Peg says that Palo’s role, as ‘Best Man,’ is to assist Pog, the Groom, get ready for the wedding.

Although Pog thinks this is a great idea, Pog is still unclear about what exactly the ‘Best Man’ does. Peg asks Glenda, Brisbane’s Very Good Celebrant, for help.

Responsibilities of the Role of Best Man

The responsibilities of the role of ‘Best Man’ vary, and depend on what the rest of the bridal party expect. Glenda, Brisbane’s Very Good Celebrant, answers the many questions that Peg & Pog ask.

Pog learns that the wedding party is really a team and that he is not on his own on his wedding day! Peg is happy that Pog’s confidence is lifting and Milo is happy that his role as ‘Best Man’ really means a lot to Pog. Milo tells Pog that he is thrilled about his ‘active’ role in the wedding.

Milo aims to be the best, ‘Best Man’ for Pog. Being ‘Best Man’ comes with very important responsibilities and Milo wants to do a great job! Pog needs all the help he can get on his wedding day and he knows that Milo is just the ‘Best Man’ for a successful day.